Your poor soul,
Save your money for a moment and listen.
1. Go to your mall or local hobby shop, watch what games and being played and who is playing them.
2. Find a local miniature game convention and do the same.
3. Exchange contacts with other gamers who might game stuff you like.
4. Find out how often and where these gamers meet. Make sure you would like to assocaite with the people that are gaming.
5. Be patient and do not jump in on a whim! Ebay is full of useless junk being thrown away, though it may look good, there is no one to game it with. Be wary of Games Workshop games. They change the standard rule system every 4-5 years!
With all that in mind…......
If you find a bunch who are playing samurai as we speak, you are the luckiest gamer in the world, latch on to that group and never let go!
If not, be prepared to spend a lot of time and money collecting and painting samurai. Then be prepared to make terrain, purchase rules and photocopy them for others use. Find a game location (shop or convention) or prepare for a standoff with your wife/significant other as to gaming in your own home.
Be prepared to do all this and have no one show to play your game.
Either that or select a game that the majority you have seen game use, and go with that. Be prepared for that game system to go defunct or the other players loose interest and you have to start all over again. This applies equally to younger and older gamers as well. Especially those individuals that compete in the hobby (ie tournaments etc).
Most of all, have fun! If you are not, then it was not worth your time and money.
There is only one way to determine if you are allergic to this hobby/addiction. Get bitten and see how swollen your place gets as it fills with figs, rules and terrain that you will never use. Unfortunately I must also dispell the addicts rationalization, that even if you don’t use it, you will pass it on to your sons (not interested dad) or grandsons (they will all be girls) or you will seel it on ebay for a fortune (most will only go for half the purchase value, if the game is still being played, which does not include materials and time spent)!
Either way, it’s a heck of a ride, if you know what you are in for!
Welcome to the brotherhood of gamers!